Ian Barillas-- Ch. 5

Ian (31), Debbie King (41), Mary Vijayakari (30)
children of Ian and Debbie: Julio and August (15) and Darcy (5).

I didnt think it would get to this yet it did. How did I wind up here in my own apartment without my boys? Well after Debbie found out about Mary she kicked me out and I had to find my own place. A few days later I got served divorce papers. I still can not believe that im getting divorced but its for the best.

My brother Marcos came over after work to find out what has been going on. I had not told anyone in my family about my divorce. Marcos was shocked but he too was a divorcee so he understood. I just want this whole ordeal over with.

Finally when everything was over I had to meet Debbie at divorce court. I could not believe how much she had changed. I saw her older and thinner than when I was with her.
"I am glad that you showed up."
"Deb, I am sorry how this turned out but I have to get these things settled."
"I can imagine. Alright well lets get this over with"
Amazing how something that started so many years ago could end in just one stroke of a pen.

I wanted to say more to Debbie but I soon realized that she was still in pain about our situation. I wanted to show that I was sorry but I just sat down and listened to what the verdict of our divorce would be.

Our lawyer explained that we would have to be cordial when sharing custody of the kids. I havent seen my kids in a while so I would get them first and then they would go with Deb. The divorce fee was $7,000. Child support was $8,500 every two years for both children. Deb argued that it was not enough but the lawyer insisted that she too worked.

At the end of it all we were divorced. Gone were our wedding bands and the life that we built together since I was 16. I looked at Deb and wondered where had all the years gone? I just hoped that we would both be happier now that we were apart.

My sons Julio and August came over to see my new apartment. They were glad to see me and of course they were 15 now and were filled with questions regarding their living situation. I answered their questions the best I could. I wanted them to know that although I was not with their mother, I still respected her and cared for her.

Darcy was proving to be more difficult. He just wanted to be with him mother and didnt want to even be near me. He even had the nerve to tell me I was no longer his father. I set him straight in a minute. I told him that I was his father no matter what. I know that he is upset but he needs to try to work through this things with me.

Mary came over and met the boys. Mary didn't agree with this but I did. She was expecting my child and she needed to become part of my family. I dont know if we are getting married but I do know that I am in love with her. We both can not wait until our baby gets here.

I over heard the boys talking about Mary and they say she's nice. I just hope that they all get along. Of course, Darcy called Mary mean.

With the boys gone, I finally got time for Mary to come over and hang out with me. I told her that I wanted her to move in with me. She was shocked to hear that but said she was willing to do it on a trial. She told me that she felt horrible enough with Darcy having a bad time with the divorce.

Mary went into birth. I was so scared with the whole process but finally my new child was born.

We had a baby girl. We named her Sayra. I looked at her and was amazed. Don't get me wrong. I was involved in my other children's birth...but this was different. This was a baby girl, my baby girl Sayra.

Brianna Barillas-Chalmers Ch--5

Brianna (31) her husband Neil (32)
Taylor (3)
Narrated by Neil Chalmers


Brianna and I have been doing well in our marriage and in raising our daughter Taylor. Because of this we have been tossing back and forth the idea of actually adopting another baby. Brianna was excited when I approached her regarding adoption. She thought it was a great idea and would schedule an appointment with the family planning social worker.

We had our interview and it went well. The social worker was happy to see that we were willing to open up our home to a child in need.

"Do you think the interview went well Neil?"
"I do. We just have to be patient. Before we know it we will have the answer"
We both were nervous about getting approval and about actually receiving another baby.

I would get home and play with Taylor. When she would nap I would read the paper or find some other things to do.

Meanwhile Brianna focused on her career. She figured that she should get promoted while she had the time to work at home. Taylor was almost 5 and now kept herself occupied with hew new toys.

It seemed that it happened from one day to the next. At first the counselor came over to tell us we were approved. Next thing I knew we were getting a baby sooner than we expected.

Our baby boy was brought to us and he was as beautiful as Taylor was when we received her. We paid the adoption fee of $5,000 and decided to name him Isaiah.

My family felt complete. Finally we were able to have a boy and a little girl. Brianna and I right away took some family pictures.

For now they are going to share a room. We have to fix the rooms upstairs for the ourselves or put Taylor on the third floor. For now I am just happy getting them both to sleep.

We had a barbecue to introduce Isaiah to the rest of our extended family. the barbecue was a success and everyone had tons of fun. It felt nice to have the family come over.

Before we knew it Isaiah turned one and he was active as ever. He wanted to learn to crawl and basically put his hands on everything. We didnt allow him to do much damage. I still cant wait until we can play b-ball together.

Yep we are doing find in our marriage and our family is doing great.

Amarilis Barillas --Ch 8

Amarilis (38), Meadow (38)
Children in the house: Arthur (8)
Narrated by Meadow.

Finally the house seems empty with just our baby Arthur at home. It's amazing to me to think that Aaron and Isabel are off in college and were now here. I never thought that we would be able to spend quality time together without being interrupted. We miss our grandkids but even more missed the quietness of the house.

When we finally decided to go down to have breakfast we were surprised by Isabel. I ran and hugged her. My baby girl had been away and she looked so skinny. How can these college kids not remember to eat? I remember when I was in college all I did was eat!

Immediately we sat down and Amarilis joined us. I need to tell you that Amarilis is so strict with their education. Right away she feared the worst and asked Isabel the reason for her visit. I on the other hand was just happy to see my daughter.

After interrogating Isabel, Amarilis went outside to see if her new garden was ready. It seemed dim but at least she was making progress.

Poor Arthur was busy in his room and was excited to hear that his older sister was home for a visit. Arthur was still getting used to his life as a single child.

Once Aaron came to visit, then the truth was known. It turns out that Isabel had dropped out of college. Amarilis was livid. She could not believe that Isabel would lie and say that she was on spring break. Aaron looked a little too happy to destroy Isabel's plan. they usually got along but something must have changed.


Amarilis told Isabel that she was going to march back to school. Isabel yelled back that she was done with school. I wanted to step in and try to sort things out but just couldnt. Finally they both retreated to their corners and relaxed a bit.

I convinced Amarilis to go in the hot tub with me. I told her that Isabel was old enough to make her decisions. She didnt want to hear it but she knew I was right. Besides I made it known that I was pregnant. Amarilis thought we were done having kids and so did I. I stopped using birth control and surprise I am pregnant. Were both 38 and we are now sure this will be my last pregnancy.

We told the family and all were more shocked than surprised. Arthur loved the idea of finally having someone to play with. I just hope that he feels that way when his baby sister or brother are here.

amarilis went in to make sure Arthur didnt feel like he was being replaced or anything. For Amarilis Arthur was and still is her baby boy.

we all spent time making sure Arthur was OK with the new baby. And now that Isabel was home...she even doted on him more.

Before we knew it, I had given birth. To our surprise I gave birth to not one but three babies. Amarilis was not surprised since she was a triplet herself. We have decided to name the babies: Jullieta, Ramon and Raquel.

Aaron and Isabel Barillas Ch. 1

Aaron (18), his wife Heather (18), Isabel (18)
Aaron and Heather's kids: Demetrius (2), Minor (2), Sebastian (2) and Sarah (2)
Narrated by: Isabel.

Yes we finally made it to college. In the beginning, it was my twin brother Aaron always moping around for his wife Heather. I really don't understand how they are supposed to both finish college but they are. I think that its best for them to work things out. Before I knew it, it was all of us living here together. All of us in this small crowded house and trust me its crowded.

at first it was fun seeing my brother become an actual parent. I do not think both of them did not know how it was going to be. Now that my moms are not here to take care of the kids..well its a whole different ball game. Do not get me wrong. I love my nieces and nephews but I also love my peace and quiet.

I have no idea how Heather does it all. The burden of the quads seems to fall on her than my brother. The other day I caught her studying at 5 in the morning.

Contrary to Heather I was another story. I barely could keep up with the studying and going to class. The noise with the kids was so unbearable at times.


I had enough and I told him and Heather that I was going to go back home to visit for a while. After all it was the end of our sophmore year and I was ready to get the hell out of this house. Aaron looked like I was going to go and snitch on him to our parents. I didnt think that at all. All I wanted to do was to go home to peace and quiet!

Linda Chalmers (ex of Marcos barillas) ch. 3

Linda Chalmers (27), David, Mateo, Eugenio and Pearla (4)
Narrated by Linda.

I look at Pearla and I am amazed at how much she has grown. I spend the most time with her because she is my baby girl. The boys keep asking for their dad but now they realize that im their mom.

The quads are here with me for their planned stay. It hurts me when I have to give them to Marcos but soon they will be older and hopefully understand that we do this for their benefit. For now the new activity table I bought them gives them plenty to do.

I still work as a lounge singer and am trying to get another record recorded thus meet my new nanny. She is awesome with my children. She should be for the $20,000 fee I paid to find her. She is all the help I could ask for.

My ex-sister-in-law Amarilis came by to see how I have been doing. I know that she wants me to feel welcomed to the family. I know that no one really has ousted me but I dont feel as though I belong. I tried to tell her that but she was clueless. If it were not for my kids trust me I would no longer have anything to do with the Barillas family. Don't get me wrong. They are all nice but its over whelming being a Barillas and their legacy lifestyle. I still remember how Marcos would love to have them all over and it was way too much to bear. This is when I thank god for my small apartment and not needing to have to host a party.

In the mornings I help get breakfast ready while the nanny helps feeding and clothing the kids. I know it may seem like im not a hands on mom but in reality I am. I have been busy teaching them how to use the potty and trust me it is no easy task.

The days that I have to record the nanny stays at home alone with them. I do not know how Marcos does it without a nanny. Of course as of now he is unable to afford one. I on the other hand have money saved up from my tour that I can. If it werent for my savings then I would be in Marcos' boat.

The night before Marcos had to pick them up we tucked them and wished them good night. I have informed the nanny that I would have to let her go. I was sad because she is such a great help but I simply cannot have her stay on just to be a maid. I am not that well off.
She was saddened because she grew to love my kids. I just hope that she finds another job. I heard that Dylan Barillas just had twins, maybe he could use her. I guess I can use my old "barillas connections" to get her a new job.

After its all said and done I have to get back to the routine of being on my own. It wierd being able to finally get back to my work out routine. next time the Quads stay with me they will be 5 years old. I cant believe it.